How to Communicate with the Honor Network: It is not through arrogance that we wish to tell anyone how to communicate, but simply based on our experience of the past in trying to communicate with others that we have made this list. We don’t want you to waste your time, or you waste ours, as we are sure you have dealt with sites with dead email addresses and one-sided offers of support too. In a nutshell the Honor Network method is summed up by the following phase: “In good time and in good order” In Good Time: The more we know you the faster we return messages. With strangers we will still send you emails faster than almost anybody else in the MRA cause over the long haul. In return we ask you to tell us when you can answer ours (if you need more time just let us know when that time will be). All of us have other aspects to our lives, which demand our time to get them done, so we will not get irritated if you say, "give me a month to answer such-and-such." Answering a message in one day is better than average, in one week is about average, and in a month less than average. Yet answer you must in good time to get the same in return. You will quickly get placed on the backburner with every excuse and ever increasing & surprising delay that crops up from your direction. The MRA cause is a serious one, so let us know when you can answer, whether that be in a few days, a few weeks or a few months. These are all totally acceptable responses and we will never get angry with anyone that delivers on their asked for monthly responses. Yet be warned, we will warmly move you to the fast reply group, as we will sadly move you to the last to be notified group, as you treat us like some girlfriend you don’t want to deal with. If you can’t see the difference between telephone tag with some drama queen, and dealing with men, then how can you possible help the cause in any effective manner? You tell us?  In Good Order: Give & take is what we mean by in good order. We will work with you in small ways leading to larger ones as trust is established. If you have no deals and have no idea where to start we advise you to join one of our PNEP forum partners, which include: Anti-Misandry (UK/EU) , Dads on the Air (Australia) , My Nations (India/Asia), The Ration Shed (New Zealand), Man Defender (Spain & Latin America) , or North American MRA. We have also supplied BC Fathers(Canada) and Dads House (Ireland) before they were forced to close or shut down. These forums are almost all the top forums in each country or region. To join North American MRA you must have someone vouch for you, or have some work done over the long term to prove you are at this serious. Otherwise join one of the other forums stated above and communicate with other vets of that forum, or our HN reps on each forum to see how you can help that forum in that region. Then, as you earn your wings, we can start to help each other as we learn that you are serious, and not a troll, or not someone unable to get anyone to cooperate with you over the long term because they won’t accept your stubborn ways. Stubborn isn’t manly, as women can indirectly go about their ways while acting like you are the boss. Yet cooperation in deeds is a very big problem for women and many stubborn men. Here a man cooperates in deeds! Give & take also means you are allowed to say “NO” when you don’t like a deal, and that means we will appreciate the “No”, over say “no answer” (dead email), a very late answer that is vague with excuses, a “yes” that slowly turns into a “no” as we read between the lines and your excuses pile up, or a “yes” that has no action taken on the plan by the date you give us, or a “yes” that turns out to be you doing what you want instead of doing what was part of the deal of exchange. So as you can see a clear “No” saves us time (big time!). A “no” helps you too, by not getting your feelings hurt, as you do something we don’t need and is not part of the deal, and then we don't cheer. Trust can come from a good “No”, more that a distorted “yes.” Of course never saying “yes” will lead to no one saying “yes” to your ideas in the end, and so you can just keep in touch without our support. It is still better to have some channels open with other heads of organizations, if anyone wishes to change their ways, instead of people getting burned out and giving up on the cause because of all the casual men ruining it for the serious men. Isn’t it? We think so. Aside from that, the only other issue in good order is to give as detailed an offer as you can, which means casual offers thought up the night before, that involves everyone funding your plan (with no details), is likely to get planted on the ever growing “In Box File Holder” of, “If we had lots of money to experiment with, we could try one of these ideas.” We all want to win, and many of us feel we have the idea (thought up years ago) to take us to the promisedland of success. You will get more takers if you have a thorough plan, accountability in the plan, offers to others that will help them in their plans, and your total commitment to do all the hard plugging work to be done by yourself with your own plan, and not just be the “ideas man.” Aside from the above issues we are all ears. So if we are square on the fast track way to dealing in good faith, then click this shield below to be taken to the message board.